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AN=3EAs his craggy face turns towards the horizon and his eyes seek out the =
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=92s a most interesting article about Edmund Hillary written by his son Pete=
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ng a rather reclusive child with strong interests in pressing flowers, writi=
ng poems and bird-watching=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3E=
He tells how at the age of ten years his dad and Mingma, his Sherpa mountain=
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n: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThey tied a rope to him as they crossed the steep sno=
w slopes of a high mountain in the South Island of New Zealand=2E<SPAN style=
=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EPeter was tied between his dad and Min=
gma and whenever he fell or lost his footing on the slope they would =91haul=
 on the rope and bungy him back up into the steps from where I had fallen=92=
=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EPeter learned that his f=
ather would always look after him=2E He had learnt =91a real lesson in trust=
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dana'=3EPeter Hillary points out that he was affected by his dad=92s love fo=
r adventure and the great outdoors=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0=
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way to his dad=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EBut for Pe=
ter it is simpler than that=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=
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ries: some manufacture lawyers, while others produce landscape gardeners=2E<=
SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThe Hillary family is a limi=
ted production mountaineering establishment=2E=92<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</B=
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point on this is both interesting and liberating for us all=2E<SPAN style=3D=
'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThe reality of our lives is that we have =
all been deeply affected by our parents and particularly by our fathers=2E<S=
PAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EMy own father=92s background =
of first violinist in an orchestra taught me to love good music=2E<SPAN styl=
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d become a reasonably serious rock / roots guitarist / songwriter and a very=
 average, or should I say pathetic singer=2E The likes of Bob Dylan and Mark=
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ey made it with less than perfect voices=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=
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own children all play and write music=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=
=A0 </SPAN=3EMy two eldest boys play in a band called BENT, a hard core band=
 that is so loud it can peel paint=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0=
 </SPAN=3EThey are hoping they are on the verge of discovery, having won las=
t year=92s Music-Oz Listeners Choice and just signing one of their songs wit=
h a German record company distributed through BMG in France, Germany and the=
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: Verdana'=3EWhat am I saying=3F<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SP=
AN=3E=91Like father like son=92 is not necessarily something to be ashamed o=
f, but quite possibly embraced=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </S=
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 to find their own expression and level=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=
=A0 </SPAN=3EAnother key is to become better fathers ourselves, for the sake=
 of our children=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0=A0 </SPAN=3E=91Ra=
ge against the Machine=92 or =91Korn=92 is not the kind of music I will ever=
 get excited about, but it is a genuine sound that is current for my son=92s=
 generation=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EOur children =
will always reflect us, but at the same time we must allow them the space to=
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s and negatives=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EAccentuat=
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=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EDo a stock take this week on what sort of family factory you=
 are running=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EDo you need =
to make some changes in yourself=3F<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 <=
/SPAN=3EHow can you better yourself=3F<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0=
 </SPAN=3ECheck out Neil Ryan=92s =91father classification list=92 in Specia=
l Feature=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThe affirming /=
 nurturing father is the one I=92m shooting for, how about you=3F<o:p=3E</o:=
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EN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EYours for affirming,=
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PAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EWarwick Marsh=A0=A0has=
 been married=A0to Alison for=A027 years=2E He is the father of five childre=
n, four boys and one girl, ranging in age from 22 years to=A010 years=2E=A0 =
Warwick is a musician, songwriter, producer and public speaker who likes to =
think he can still laugh at himself=2E</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10p=
t; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: ' mso-bidi-font-family: MS=
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'#top'=3EBack to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=3E</block=
quote=3E</td=3E<td width=3D1 bgcolor=3D#999999 nowrap rowspan=3D19=3E</td=3E=
</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D25 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' nowrap=3E<img s=
rc=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/templat=
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eight=3D25 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' background=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/=
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tp://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fissue41=
-9th June, 2003=5Fattitude=2Ejpg' align=3Dleft=3E</div=3E <SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=
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bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E<P class=3DMsoBlockText style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 14=2E=
4pt 0pt 0cm; TEXT-ALIGN: center' align=3Dcenter=3E<SPAN=3E<STRONG=3ETHE ART =
OF FATHERING =96 ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT<=3Fxml:namespace prefix =3D o ns =3D 'u=
rn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office' /=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</STRONG=3E</SPAN=
=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoBlockText style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 14=2E4pt 0pt 0cm; TEXT=
-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY:=
 Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=
=A0 </SPAN=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoBlockText style=3D'=
MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT=
-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3ERepeat af=
ter me =96 'I am a role model'=85'I am a role model'=85'I am a role model'=2E=
 Just a gentle reminder to all of us, we are role models to our children=2E =
Often we go merrily along with our lives,<IMG hspace=3D4 src=3D'http://www=2E=
bosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fangry=2Ejpg' align=
=3Dright vspace=3D4 border=3D0=3E taking each day as it comes on its own mer=
its, and slowly but surely become consumed in what life offers at that momen=
t=2E It is this period when circumstances start to control us, that brings o=
ut the =91other side=92 of parenthood=2E That other side for me is akin to h=
aving an evil twin brother =96 I become tense, irritable, selfish, sarcastic=
, selfish, selfish, and selfish some more=2E You see, when circumstances beg=
in to take control, all other elements of our lives are pushed aside=85with =
our family the first to go=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoBlo=
ckText style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-=
AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E=
0pt'=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoBlockText style=3D'MAR=
GIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SI=
ZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EThe past few=
 weeks have been very hectic in the Sloan household, and as a result my fami=
ly have paid the price=2E As we are preparing to move house, the little issu=
es we normally laugh off are becoming bigger than Ben Hur=2E All of a sudden=
 we hate our job, the car=92s playing up, the garbage truck is late, that la=
dy in the white Volvo got in the way again, you know the rest=2E Whatever th=
e issue, it=92s huge, and it makes us mad=2E As we start to lose our temper<=
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 and say things in the heat of the moment, having little regard for those ar=
ound us, we soon forget about the =91walls having ears=92=2E Our children se=
e us in a different light=2E The normally jovial, laugh a minute, nothing=92=
s a problem dad becomes the cranky old man that nobody would want as a fathe=
r=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoBlockText style=3D'MARGIN: 0=
cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10=
pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E=
</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoBlockText style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-AL=
IGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Ve=
rdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3ENow don=92t get me wrong, none of us =
were meant to be perfect =96 although that @#*&^ guy in the bank thought he =
was=85whoops, there I go again=2E No, none of us are perfect, but we do need=
 to keep tabs on our thoughts and our tongue throughout these torrid times=2E=
 Sure it=92s hard, and often less satisfying at the time, but if we can carr=
y out an attitude check every now and again, the world will be a better plac=
e=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoBlockText style=3D'MARGIN: 0=
cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10=
pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E=
</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoBlockText style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-AL=
IGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Ve=
rdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EJust last week I was listening to a m=
otivational speaker, principal of a large car dealership on the Sunshine Coa=
st, and he mentioned this very issue=2E The question he raised in dealing wi=
th the =91heat of the moment=92 scenario was this =96 Think of the problem y=
ou are experiencing at the moment which is causing you all this grief=85now =
ask yourself the question =96 =93Will this problem be an issue in twenty yea=
rs time=3F=94 I think what he was trying to say, was that although this curr=
ent problem seems like nothing else matters, will it make any difference to =
our life in the future=3F Probably not! Sounds so easy eh=3F Nope, not when =
it=92s you in the middle of it=2E So what do we do=3F=3F Attitude Adjustment=
 time!!<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoBlockText style=3D'MARGIN=
: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE:=
 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=
=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoBlockText style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT=
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 Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EI think it is probably more import=
ant to have an attitude adjustment when our children may be affected by our =
behaviour=2E When the extra superlatives start to spill out, and the tone of=
 voice is not becoming of our normal character =96 then we need to have a lo=
ok at ourselves=2E My eldest child is 12 years old, and to this day he has n=
ever heard me utter a swear word =96 it=92s something I have worked on throu=
ghout fatherhood=2E Now, throughout 9 of them years I worked in an undergrou=
nd coalmine, where every second word was a swear word=2E It would have been =
easy to be lax and let a couple slip =96 but I had made that conscious decis=
ion to be mindful of how I act around my children=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E=
</P=3E<P class=3DMsoBlockText style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: just=
ify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; ms=
o-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMs=
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EN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=
=2E0pt'=3ENow guys, I=92m not saying I am a saint or anything like that; (if=
 I can do it, anyone can) =96 just reinforcing the need to be heedful and ma=
ture in the way we act, talk, and react around our children=2E Let=92s make =
sure that <STRONG=3Eour</STRONG=3E attitude to life=92s circumstances does n=
ot alter our children=92s attitude=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=
=3DMsoBlockText style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN l=
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=A0</P=3E<P class=3DMsoBlockText style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: j=
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IZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EPaul Sloan is an accountant working in Ma=
roochydoore=2E=A0 He is married with three children aged one, nine and eleve=
n years=2E=A0 Paul is an active surfer who lives on the Sunshine Coast in Qu=
eensland=2E=A0 He is a family man who hasn=92t lost his sense of humour=2E<o=
:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P=3E</P=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div align=3Dright=3E<fon=
t size=3D2=3E<a href=3D'#top'=3EBack to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E=
</p=3E</font=3E</blockquote=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D2=
5 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' nowrap=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/em=
ail=5Fblast/templates/fathers/template1/Generic/banner=2Ejpg' width=3D595=3E=
</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D12 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' backgrou=
nd=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/templat=
e1/Generic/fade=2Egif'=3E<blockquote=3E<p=3E<font size=3D3 face=3D'Verdana, =
Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif' color=3Dblack=3E<br=3E<a name=3D'anchor3'=3E</=
a=3E<b=3EGrandads</b=3E</font=3E<font face=3D'verdana' size=3D2=3E<br=3E<br=3E=
<div=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fima=
ges/fathers=5Fissue41-9th June, 2003=5Fnever thought=2Ejpg' align=3Dleft=3E<=
/div=3E <P=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<STRONG=3EYOU never thought</STRONG=3E</=
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N: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<F=
ONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EYou never thought you could get angry<=
=3Fxml:namespace prefix =3D o ns =3D 'urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:offic=
e' /=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal =
style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-languag=
e: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EYou never thought you co=
uld be that hostile<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3D=
MsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-an=
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ght you could be so indifferent<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=
=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU s=
tyle=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E=
You never thought you could have an affair<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E<=
/SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lan=
g=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3D=
Verdana=3EYou never thought you could be that weak<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</=
FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<=
SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FON=
T face=3DVerdana=3EYou never thought you could cheat on your finances <o:p=3E=
</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGI=
N: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<F=
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style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-languag=
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'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E=
<FONT face=3DVerdana=3ELook at yourself in the mirror and admit, I could com=
mit every sin=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DM=
soNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ans=
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'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU=
'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FON=
T=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPA=
N lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT f=
ace=3DVerdana=3EAs a Father and husband your personal selfishness needs to b=
e sacrificed by the love you have for your family=85first!<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</F=
ONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm =
0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D=
2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E=
<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU styl=
e=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EWhy=
 is it that a 35-year-old married man tries to act like he is seventeen and =
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you get older wisdom is born from experience, sometimes very painful experie=
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NT face=3DVerdana=3EUnderstand that fathers as men, are capable of any of th=
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<td width=3D578 height=3D25 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' background=3D'http://www=2Eb=
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e41-9th June, 2003=5Fteacher=2Ebmp' align=3Dleft=3E</div=3E <P style=3D'MARG=
IN-RIGHT: -9pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT color=3D#3333=
ff=3E<STRONG=3EPlease be excused</STRONG=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D=
'MARGIN-RIGHT: -9pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT color=3D=
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AMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT color=3D#3333ff=3E<BR=3E<BR=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EPleas=
e eckuse John being absent on Jan=2E 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, and also 33=2E<BR=3E=
<BR=3EPlease excuse Gloria from Jim today=2E She is administrating=2E<BR=3E<=
BR=3EPleazse excuse Roland from P=2EE=2E for a few day=2E Yesterday he fell =
out of a tree and misplaced his hip=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EJohn has been absent becau=
se he had two teeth taken off his face=2E<BR=3E<BR=3ECarlos was absent yeste=
rday because he was playing football=2E He was hurt in the growing part=2E<B=
R=3E<BR=3EMary could not come to school because she has been bothered by ver=
y close veins=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EChris will not be in school cus he has an acre i=
n his side=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EPlease excuse Ray Friday from school=2E He has very=
 loose vowels=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EPlease excuse Tom for being absent yesterday=2E =
He had diarrhea and his boots leak=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EIrving was absent this morn=
ing because he missed his bust=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EPlease excuse Jimmy for being=2E=
 It was his father's fault=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EI kept Billie home because she had =
to go Christmas shopping because I don't know what size she wear=2E<BR=3E<BR=
=3EPlease excuse Harriet for missing school yesterday=2E We forget to get th=
e Sunday paper off the porch and when we found it Monday, we thought it was =
Sunday=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EPlease excuse my son's tardiness=2E I forgot to wake hi=
m up and I did not find him till I started making the beds=2E<BR=3E<BR=3ESal=
ly won't be in school a week from Friday=2E We have to attend a funeral=2E<B=
R=3E<BR=3EMy daughter was absent yesterday because she was tired=2E She spen=
t the weekend with the Marine's=2E<=3Fxml:namespace prefix =3D o ns =3D 'urn=
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div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=3E</blockquote=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=
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web=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/template1/Generic/banner=2Ejp=
g' width=3D595=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D25 bgcolor=3D'=
#ffffff' background=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/template=
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face=3D'Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif' color=3Dblack=3E<br=3E<a name=
=3D'anchor5'=3E</a=3E<b=3ESingle Dads</b=3E</font=3E<font face=3D'verdana' s=
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l=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fissue41-9th June, 2003=5Fchild sign=2Ebm=
p' align=3Dleft=3E</div=3E <SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'=
FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGI=
N: 0cm 14=2E05pt 0pt 0cm; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<STRONG=3EIs Government the=
 Best Parent=3F</STRONG=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 14=
=2E05pt 0pt 0cm; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3Eby Roland Foster</P=3E<P class=3DMso=
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=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E=
<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3EWhen governments interfere in the social and economic l=
ife of families, they operate outside of their rightful domain=2E<SPAN style=
=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIrrespective of how pure and honourabl=
e their motives and intentions are, the consequences of their actions are ne=
ver pretty=2E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0p=
t; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3E=A0<=3Fxml:namespace prefix =3D=
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N=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: jus=
tify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3EThe hindsight afforded us by historical analysi=
s clearly reveals that the Aboriginal Welfare Agency, responsible for the st=
olen generation, failed dismally in its role as a protector of Aboriginal ch=
ildren=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIt is obvious from=
 the lessons of history that government agencies make poor substitute parent=
s=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3ESadly, we know also tha=
t the mistakes of the past often repeat themselves=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spac=
erun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGI=
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: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3EThe Aboriginal Welfare Agency still exists=
 but no longer deals exclusively with aboriginals=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-space=
run: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIts name has been changed<IMG hspace=3D4 src=3D'htt=
p://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5FCSA%20lo=
go=2Ejpg' align=3Dright vspace=3D4 border=3D0=3E to the Child Support Agency=
 and the Family Court of Australia=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0=
 </SPAN=3EThis double headed monster declares that it =91helps parents manag=
e their responsibilities=92 (CSA) and =91has as its paramount concern the be=
st interest of the children=92 (FCA)=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0=
 </SPAN=3EIt believes it exists to protect children from incompetent and neg=
lectful parents=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EHowever t=
hese parents are no longer defined as being of Aboriginal descent=2E<SPAN st=
yle=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3ENow all that is required is to be a=
 separated father=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThis is=
 sufficient to be deemed by government agencies to be an irresponsible paren=
t and incapable of caring for your children=2E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoN=
ormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-A=
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cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3EThe heart, culture a=
nd arrogance of this rogue government agency remains unchanged, but the meth=
ods are more sophisticated=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3E=
No longer do =91the welfare=92 turn up at our homes, unannounced and unexpec=
ted, in their black government cars to prise children away as they cling des=
perately to their parent=92s legs=2E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal styl=
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reated by appointment, in well-designed, non-threatening offices=2E<SPAN sty=
le=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EJudgements and decisions about our c=
ompetency as parents, and the way we care for and support our children, are =
made by anonymous, uninterested, doughie-eyed bureaucrats with only first na=
mes, who know us only by our reference numbers=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun=
: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThese well-groomed and polite automatons are programme=
d to elicit rehearsed responses about formulas, legislative constraints, par=
ental obligations, residency and contact=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=
=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThey know and care nothing about the social and emotional im=
pact of their methods and decisions=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0=
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lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3ERoland Foster=
 is an non-custodial father, separated since 1997, with 5 young children age=
d between 6 and 14 years=2E=A0 Roland is a passionate father and an active s=
ocial reformer who believes Australia's current laws are contributing to the=
 creation of our fatherless society=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E</SPAN=3E=
</SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div align=3Dright=3E<font size=3D2=3E<a href=3D=
'#top'=3EBack to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=3E</block=
quote=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D13 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' =
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bidi-font-style: normal'=3E<SPAN style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 10=2E0pt'=3EWh=
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ister nice guy, gives children whatever they want / rarely what they need=2E=
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achievements / basks in reflected glory / never any help to mum=2E</FONT=3E<=
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